Over the last several years of my life, I have learned that it is best for me to accept life as it is and not as it should be. There are countless things in this world that no matter how hard I have tried to understand but it was a pointless effort. I find joy in accepting my everyday choices and challenges without condition.
I find peace in my truth as well as in the truths of people who occupy a space in my life.
In life we are bound to be in situations where we have to make difficult choices. We are bound to face number of challenges from day to day, but then in the end we find that we have made our best decisions, there are no mistake and everything in life happens just as it should.
Sometimes, we beat up ourselves for making decisions, for taking risks that might have put our dreams, friendships or family ties on the line, but then this is what life is all about. It is about choices and with all our choices there are circumstances.
I am thankful for this amazing gift called life and I refuse to focus on decisions made in the past. There are no mistakes. The present is what I have and the choices that I make today will surely make an impact. I will enjoy each and every moment, second, minute and hour of my day. I will continue to appreciate all the colors and flowers in my life.
I can't worry about the future because tomorrow is never guaraneed. I can't worry about life as it should be. I can only hope to be able to continually grow from experiencing and accepting life as it is. I choose to be happy. I choose to live my life with purpose. I choose to take steps to get me closer to my dreams. And these choices make me feel like I am flying every single day.
First of all, I want to appreciate you, because you posted this blog at 8 o’clock Saturday morning, even mostly metro city’s people don’t wake up early morning in weekend.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your perception toward life; really inspirational and positive thoughts. I had one experience, which changed my perception toward life. I would like to share as you shared.
In my diploma time, I saw a dream that I woke up early morning and prepared for college. As usual, I took local bus for college. Journey was so smooth & full of fun with friends but when I got down form bus, I was hit so hard by one blue color’s car but I stood up very easily and walked toward my friend, who was looking toward me. I said to him with energy, “See man, I am super hero, I didn’t get any scratch at my body… Amazing ” but He was still looking toward me with silence, his eye was so scaring. Same time, he started walk toward me and he passed into me body. I got shock then I realized, “I got dead”
I was woken up from that horrible dream by my daily Alarm. Afterward, I thought, If that will become true, I can’t touch my Alarm clock, I can’t inhale smell of soil after first rain, I can’t say to my mother ”you are so sweet” and dad, ”you are best in this world”. I didn’t miss single minute to say to my parent.
After that day, I gave, ”Thanks to god for life” and made rules for myself that don’t take tension, which things are not under control But I don’t like to miss my chance, which things are under control by me because I don’t want be sad, when I will lay down at hospital bed before death. I will also happy at my wrong decisions “at least I took this step with full confidence, which came by long consideration and according to my taste”.
Conclusion: Think before take any decision, which impact your future because Life runs at your decision. Don’t loss anyone, who likes you without any greediness!!!!!
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