Sometimes people enter in our life, stay for a little while and then go away. But the best part is: in this little time they leave life-long impact on our lives...!!! :) We learned a lot from them in this little time.
We may not remember all of them everyday but the question is: “is it really possible to forget them completely...?”
No matter how much we try to forget them, how much we try to distance ourselves from their memories (…good or bad), they always keep coming back to us in form of our thoughts, in form of our memories.
We let them go because we think that is the best thing to do at that point of time because we do not want the control of our life in their hands and then we wonder if the decision we took to let them go away from our lives was really a good decision…?
I think nobody thinks that it is a good decision to let our friends go away from our lives. We do not let them go. It just happens because may be it is just not meant to be for longer than it was supposed to be.
But I do regret when I look back sometimes. I do not know if it is my mind or my heart who sometimes keeps on telling me to speak to those friends, to make a contact again, to message them now before it becomes too late because they were the ones who actually listened to me, who accepted me as I am, who understood me.
Here I have a question: why did god get those friends in our life if they had to go away, what purpose did it serve? May be I know the reason, the purpose behind it or may be I do not.
I still think of my lost friends, some of them are a big part of my diary life which I will not be able to complete without them. On one hand I am very happy and I admire what they brought into my life (I miss them all :( :)); on the other hand it is really very sad when I do not receive a simple “Hi” from them.
It is really strange how our friends can be so close and then nothing..!!! :(
Ending with a positive line:
"We meet to set memories and depart to remember them" :)
Hello,
ReplyDeleteAs you wrote about “Hi’. That is really true. If somebody is saying to “Hi” , you have to say “Hi” in your language. Even, I also missed that in last blog because sometime, I didn’t get reply of most of mails from my “closed friends” So I thought, I should talk as much as formal.
Thanks for wrote down blog in weekday also, that’s showing your “enthusiasm towards convey your feeling to world”, No body can’t teach flying skill to bird that comes naturally.
As you said in blog, I found same problem of knowing this nature law, why somebody comes to our life and went away. Sometime your life is so much hectic and you can’t concentrate at your personal life that makes you unhappy but you can search happiness in between by thinking of holiday : ). Some theme, I have a habit to go for outing with my closed friends & minimum 2 times in year with my family. At one of my outing, I woke up one fine morning and roamed at sea beach. Sea was varying quiet with flat weaves. Wind was tried to make me as much as energetic and full of thoughts. In between walk suddenly, I noticed, some crisper things were comedown under my feet, these were shining shells. I got excite to kept them into my palm; those were awesome creation of Mother Nature. When I completed my walk, I kept some of shells in my pocket. Rest of them, I left…….
When I come to hotel room, I come across one of human nature. These shells were kept in my pockets, these were my “Closed friends” and rest of all were my”friends”, which I kept into my palm for pried of time. But they gave to me vital lesson “Comprise between friend & Closed friend”.
So, if somebody is closed to you, you should keep communication as much as possible like I kept shells into my t-shirt‘s pocket, which is near to heart and Second side of coin, if you don’t like somebody , you will loss contact…… that’s happened neutrally but people thought , this was happened by god. Even God doesn’t want to be alone you in this world, that’s why god made billions of creatures around us.
Try to check my Picture Blog, which tells full story of my outing trip…
Enjoy your freedom with Mother Nature!!!!! http://www.orkut.co.in/ExternalAlbum?uid=12714093497590057322&aid=1268393729&t=16306961304782649526&vid=04722778485616359281&ik=ACGyDXuWhg-Nc1zKbBwBVSwu__X6AjKKaw
Bottom line: Think about relationship from your “bottom of heart”, Not from “Relational Brain” and Late is not too much late, even God gave you enough time to known him.
I am not going to write bye, because I don’t have habit of say goodbye to my closer!!!!!
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